People who dont teach their damn kids to behave or dont have them if you wont raise them

[mytee]

I just came from an appointment with my daughter. While Im waiting for her to come out of her session, a woman comes in with 2 little boys. These little monsters ran all around the waiting room making noise, tearing up, and generally running amok. What was their "mother" doing while these little brats ran wild? Talking on her damn phone! What happened to the good old days when people taught their kids to behave in public? My daughter has Asperger's Syndrome with severe ADHD and I have never allowed her to behave in public like that. Back in the good old days, if a child acted up and the parents were too preoccupied to notice, a passerby could beat their ass themselves -that's what they needed a good spanking-Im not advocating abuse-Ive never spanked my daughter or even hit my dog with a rolled up newspaper-but even I have my limits!
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[Bojangles]

I know what you mean. I remember being little and going to the Doctor and usually the waiting room was flooded with kids that their mother and/or father just had no interest in disciplining. While their parents are on their cell phone or reading a magazine, their children would run free, spreading their germs every where and tearing shit up. Let me tell you, when you're sick, you don't feel like hearing a kid scream at the top of their lungs just to do it, or ripping apart books and stomping on toys. Parents really need to step their act up and lay down the law.

I don't know if I've ever told this story on here, but mytee you have just reminded me of an incident that occurred to myself and a friend about a year ago. Goddamn, did I get pissed.

So, my friend and I were out and about cruising around, hitting up the mall and we may have even seen a movie that day. All was going well until we decided, on our way home, that we wanted to eat some grub at Burger King. We place our order, get our food and leisurely munch down. Well, sitting behind us, was two women and a girl that was probably no more than 10 years old. One woman was a bit older and the other looked like she was in her twenties, possibly younger, but she also had that "I do drugs." look about her, so I could be mistaken. Who knows, she could have been the brain dead older sister.

Well, as my friend and I sit there and eat our food, the next thing I know a spitball lands on our table. Of course, it was coming from the table that had the three women sitting at it. However, the older and younger woman had went outside to smoke a cigarette. So, the little girl is fucking shooting spitballs at our table, some of them even hitting us. God, was I fucking pissed. Well, the younger woman comes back in and sits beside of the little girl. Naturally, I thought it would be the end of the spitball frenzy. Of course, when dealing with fucking idiots, I was wrong. Instead of stopping the little girl, the younger woman actually helped her shoot the spit balls at our table.

I was, needless to say, furious. I turned around staring their table down, but they didn't even attempt to hide what they were doing. They just kept the straw aimed at us. Unfortunately, I knew I was fucked. If I would have said anything at all to them, I knew the place would erupt, because trashy women like that will just create a spectacle, no matter how wrong they are. Of course, the whole goddamn restaurant would also turn on me, because if you're a guy and you say anything harsh to a woman, you're automatically an asshole. Unfortunately, there was no boyfriend or husband with them, either. If there was, I'm sure the most brutal ass beating of all time would have taken place in a Burger King. I tried calling every female friend I knew IRL, just hoping that they were around the same area we were in. I would have paid to see the younger woman get the ass beating she deserved.

Unfortunately, no one was in the immediate area. I even thought of calling the cops, or talking to the management just to own them, but we decided against it. We were done with our food and it was time to leave.

It's amazing how fucking stupid some people truly are.

[mytee]

Im just glad someone agrees with me -I was almost afraid everyone would think Im a child-hater or racist or something -Truly Im not -my daughter means everything to me but children need limits-if their parents wont and no one else can what kind of world are we going to have?

[Daylight Yet Unseen]

no. hitting your kids is NEVER answer. fuck people who hit their kids. i fucking hate them.

[mytee]

no. hitting your kids is NEVER answer. fuck people who hit their kids. i fucking hate them.

Okay but for goodness sakes dont let them climb all over strangers out in public while you jaw on the phone-for all she knew I was a dangerous stranger(Im not -like I said Ive never spanked my daughter or beat my dog). And dont let them be a general pain in the but- whatever discipline technique you feel is best and works on your child use it but DONT let them run amok and be MY problem

[Bojangles]

More people should have their kids taken away from them, so someone with a brain can give it a shot. If you're a parent and you don't take care for your children and you won't give them up, please die so someone else can handle the job for you.

[mytee]

More people should have their kids taken away from them, so someone with a brain can give it a shot. If you're a parent and you don't take care for your children and you won't give them up, please die so someone else can handle the job for you.

AMEN!!!!!

[Daylight Yet Unseen]

whatever. hitting your kids is NEVER the answer. people who hit their kids deserve to rot in hell. ground them, take away their video games, put them in the corner, something. NEVER hit them.

[mytee]

whatever. hitting your kids is NEVER the answer. people who hit their kids deserve to rot in hell. ground them, take away their video games, put them in the corner, something. NEVER hit them.

So long as the result is they behave-if you can acheive that without physical punishment and like I said my daughter always behaved in public despite ADHD-then go for it. I know many children who's parents dont spank who behave but they have been taught to behave

[Daylight Yet Unseen]

even if they DONT behave. never hit them, EVER. smash their fucking xbox with a hammer but NEVER hit the child.

[mytee]

even if they DONT behave. never hit them, EVER. smash their fucking xbox with a hammer but NEVER hit the child.

Do you have kids? Just wondered. Again, Ive never hit my daughter or my dogs and I wouldnt ever hit them. :Angel:

[Daylight Yet Unseen]

i'm 21. i dont have kids. but my parents hit me as a kid and i've grown to hate people who hit kids.

[mytee]

Figures I got hit alot too I just have a low tolerance for children running amok plus that woman had no idea if I was okay or not-I could have walked away with one or both children and she'd have been on the phone. I hope if you choose someday to have children you can break the cycle for yourself and them. I dont hit my Shelby like I said. I taught her by taking her in public from 5 days old. Every week or so we'd go somewhere if just to have a pepsi and by the time she was a preschooler she could behave -even with ADHD.

[Friday The 13th]

Look I am not being mean here.... But.... I was beat on with belts, sweeper cords, wooden yardsticks, metal yardsticks, fly swatters, switches, anything available! Even though I was beat on I can tell you now I deserved EVERY damn beating I got! And when I have kids "Spare the rod spoil the child" I won't beat them, but I will smack the piss out of em with my open hand! And if they talk back I'll slap them in the face! I actually regret the fact that my mom never punished me like my step dad... Since the punishment stopped I grew up to be a real bitch man... I treat everyone like crap... If only my ass got beat longer I guess. But seriously whipping your kids is the only way! Hell I knew not to back talk my step dad! He would beat my ass with his belt, tell me to sit down and grow roots! I knew I had to obey him! And I think that's what kids need these days is a good old ass beatin'!

[mytee]

Look I am not being mean here.... But.... I was beat on with belts, sweeper cords, wooden yardsticks, metal yardsticks, fly swatters, switches, anything available! Even though I was beat on I can tell you now I deserved EVERY damn beating I got! And when I have kids "Spare the rod spoil the child" I won't beat them, but I will smack the piss out of em with my open hand! And if they talk back I'll slap them in the face! I actually regret the fact that my mom never punished me like my step dad... Since the punishment stopped I grew up to be a real bitch man... I treat everyone like crap... If only my ass got beat longer I guess. But seriously whipping your kids is the only way! Hell I knew not to back talk my step dad! He would beat my ass with his belt, tell me to sit down and grow roots! I knew I had to obey him! And I think that's what kids need these days is a good old ass beatin'!

Makes a lot of sense-I dont think you're being mean-a fear of punishment is necessary -you dont want to go to jail so you dont break the law-
For that matter we're way too easy on criminals in the US also so the people who are prone to criminal acts arent afraid-they get treated better in jail than on the outside-watch Locked Up Abroad-I didnt think you were being mean but I thought maybe I was!

[FreddysFingers]

I don't believe in hitting kids. My mom used to hit me until she realized that it wasn't getting a response out of me. I don't look at it as child abuse but the kids would grow to hate you. Sure, slapping them in the hand, aggressively grabbing their arms away from something is fine but spankings and others... no.

[Daylight Yet Unseen]

HITTING a child in ANY WAY is CHILD ABUSE.

[mytee]

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[Daylight Yet Unseen]

yes, and i cannot believe anybody can hit a child after watching these videos, unless they don't have a fucking heart. people who hit kids are fucking sick.

[Friday The 13th]

Hitting a child is NOT Child abuse! It's DISCIPLINE!