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Wanted to put myself in pain, since obviously she was -_-

CarolinePar Wrote:Wow busy day in the forum!

not that anyone needs *my* crap but have to vent somewhere...
earlier I complained that my guy said he didn't know if given enough notice he'd be able to get off in time on Halloween night
now is saying it will be at least 8pm before he can even leave work!
So unless I can carepool with someone from the party (hope, hope) and find a babysitter in time (on Halloween night?!) I'm gonna be the "good girl and wait" until he gets home - which he'll most likely be too tired to go out again, having worked a full shift! ;(

Sounds like he just doesnt want to go-kick him to the curb-my man wants to bitch because I (and I swear this is true) I spray cooking skillets with PAM to keep food from sticking --he thinks if I stood and stared at it, that would keep it from sticking-also he eats like a spoiled 4 year old and he's a year older than me:club:

Mr. Briggs Inc. Wrote:Wanted to put myself in pain, since obviously she was -_-

that's a tad stupid. comfort her. dont put yourself in pain.

Daylight Yet Unseen Wrote:comfort her.

He tried that and it didn't work.

but still, hurting yourself is just stupid and doesnt prove anything.

I don't want to overstep my boundaries, but I think she needs professional help, if she hasn't already taken that step. Unfortunately, you won't be able to do anything for her, Briggs.

Daylight Yet Unseen Wrote:but still, hurting yourself is just stupid and doesnt prove anything.

Hurting yourself to show her you feel pain and sympathy does not register to girls. Your gonna have to suck this one up & continue to comfort her till she gets it and allows you too. She's been through a trauma & just wants to know you care & will be there for her. Give her a huggy. I hope she talks to a professional about it, I'm sorry she went through that Briggs. you're a good guy for trying to understand & help.

It was a heat of the moment type of thing. Wasn't thinking logically, got overwhelmed. I try when I can to comfort her, but I'm only human, it happens a lot, and last night was worse than most times. She does get professional help, and it has helped her to some extent, but not to a "full extent." Mainly typed it here because I needed to let my feelings on the matter out.

Hope my post didn't sound like a beat up. No ones perfect & you were trying to comfort her. When the person we love is hurting, its natural to want to take that pain away. But sometimes we can't & we have to allow them to just grieve. That's her way. Hang in there bro. *hugs*

Mr. Briggs Inc. Wrote:It was a heat of the moment type of thing. Wasn't thinking logically, got overwhelmed. I try when I can to comfort her, but I'm only human, it happens a lot, and last night was worse than most times. She does get professional help, and it has helped her to some extent, but not to a "full extent." Mainly typed it here because I needed to let my feelings on the matter out.

It's rough and it will most certainly take some time. She may not ever heal completely, but at least she has the support of someone like you to hold her hand along the way.

Thankya for kind responses

Sharks are 5-4 D:

Mr. Briggs Inc. Wrote:Thankya for kind responses

You're welcome.

This damn cough medicine is kicking my ass!-Im all foggy and fuzzy-I hate being sick

That sucks. I hope you get better soon.

Thanks Bojangles:regannnn:I appreciate it

You're welcome.

Dude hitting yourself in the head isn't going to help things... its pretty dangerous.

!!!!!!!!

My rubber dong is stuck in my butt right now